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Bugs & Teen Girls – An Unlikely Match at Discovery Academy


Stephen C. Schultz

 
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“I was amazed at the kindness, manners and gentleness of these two young women. They had a good sense of humor and were easy to talk with. There was a sense of confidence in their communication and a sparkle in their eye. I only mention this because these two young ladies have struggled through some emotional concerns and family discord well beyond their young years. They have worked hard and most likely cried often as they have navigated the therapeutic process toward wellness.”

The air was cool, but not too bad. The sky was clear and there was a definite feeling that winter was taking it’s time this year. The temperature was about 50 degree’s, which for mid November at almost 5000 feet above sea level, is an unusual gift.

I was walking across the parking lot to attend a clinical treatment team meeting at Discovery Academy. I glanced up and saw two young women right at the edge of the grass. Suddenly one of the girls screeched and they both leaped backward a few feet, jumping up and down quickly. This immediately caught my attention and I started toward them. As I got closer, I could see a small green insect on the ground. The girls were now squatting down on their heels looking at the bug. They weren’t sure what it was or if it was harmful. Caution is always a good policy when interacting with insects. However, this particular insect happened to be a Praying Mantis.

I stepped up to the girls and said hi. They returned the salutation. I mentioned it was somewhat comical to see them jumping around the parking lot and I asked if they knew what kind of insect that was. Neither of them knew what it was since both were from separate parts of the country. I bent down and picked up a leaf that the Praying Mantis was perched on. I held the leaf in my hand and mentioned that it wouldn’t hurt them and they could even let it crawl on their own hands.

I stood there as they moved closer and put their hands out. I held the leaf while one of the girls coaxed the little critter onto her hand and watched it crawl to the tips of her fingers. I needed to continue on to my meeting so I said goodbye and headed off as they continued to observe and play with this unique looking insect.

As the father of four, three of which are daughters, I was amazed at the kindness, manners and gentleness of these two young women. They had a good sense of humor and were easy to talk with. There was a sense of confidence in their communication and a sparkle in their eye. I only mention this because these two young ladies have struggled through some emotional concerns and family discord well beyond their young years. They have worked hard and most likely cried often as they have navigated the therapeutic process toward wellness.

It’s a humbling experience to witness the hard work needed to work through some of the emotional issues that these girls worked through. It is also amazing to understand just how determined they are in their academics. Students at Discovery Academy score higher than the national average on the ACT and SAT exams. They also get accepted to major universities around the country.

If you are alumni of Discovery Academy and have moved on to university studies, I would love to hear your story. Where are you now? What successes have you enjoyed?

Click here to read PART TWO OF THIS STORY – NOW AVAILABLE! From the students perspective!

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